– That is so gay.

– What are you retarded?

– They’re a bit OCD.

– What are you blind?

– Wow, bipolar much?

I am in the process of writing a piece about the use of certain words in society that are often used as synonyms for negative feelings, actions, emotions…etc. You know these words, I’m sure and most likely have found yourself in the uncomfortable place of choosing whether to address the situation or not. I find myself choosing the passive option most times but in hindsight realize if I am not an active participant in change and education than how can I expect my peers to recognize that they are offending me.

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Society has dubbed these terms acceptable language to describe something – usually negative, without the greater understanding that these are real life words that connect with many people. These are real, raw diagnoses and factors in people’s lives. These words have such deep connotations and impact that to use them as just another adjective is harming the people that have had their life impacted by these words. Who, in too many cases have had their life taken by these words.

Language is power

Language carries power—the power to shape perceptions, reinforce stigma, and either include or exclude those around us. When we use words tied to real, lived experiences as casual expressions or insults, we risk diminishing the weight they carry for those who truly live with them. It’s easy to let these phrases pass by unchallenged, to opt for passivity over discomfort. But if we want to see change, we must be willing to engage in the conversation. We must recognize that words are more than just words—they hold histories, identities, and, for many, deep pain. By choosing our language with intention and awareness, we take small but meaningful steps toward a more empathetic and inclusive society.